Erotic and Divine

The erotic is the secret ingredient for sacred love, and it is the magic that has been desecrated since the tearing down of the temples and the burning of the witches. But without the current of the erotic as an alive life force, then it's not possible to have a plug-in to the sacred, because the erotic is the sacred expression of love in your body.

I'm going to say it in another way so you really get it. The erotic is the sacred. The erotic is divinity in your body, being alive, in life force, being alive with the pulse of like the current of love is your connection to the sacred. That is how you access the sacred dimension of relational reality.

So this is the secret ingredient that is missing from cultivating relationships that are hitting the phase of the sacred and are cultivating sacred love, and are where your deep heart and where your deep soul can fundamentally be met, because without this element of like, of a knowing of how this, this Eros,
moves through your body, and how to do that in relationship with another being, you will remain stuck in the consciousness, the conscious stage where you're processing through intellect, through minds, through through, through cognition.

The sacred, the connection to the erotic, is what allows you to come into sacred love with another human being. So both people having this awareness of how to move the erotic through their bodies is what allows for the sacred stage love, the sacred stage love where your deep heart and your deep soul are going to get met. And this is the secret ingredient, and this is what's missing, and this is what isn't common knowledge in many areas of relationship, like many relationship courses or programs, they talk about how to, you know, the communication and consciousness, how to, patterns, you know how to...

But there's actually asking, you know, tapping into this sacred dimension of reality, and learning how that sacred dimension of reality moves through your own body, and then how that moves through two bodies. That is the art form.

And so I'm going to weave it back to the beginning of, this is the fundamental difference between men and women. Because how the erotic moves through the body of woman, and how the erotic moves through the body of man, and how the dance of the erotic happens between two bodies is is the dance of the masculine and feminine. And in relationship, you can choose, like I can practice in the masculine, a man can practice in the feminine. But like to create polarity, healthy charge, polarity, healthy life-affirming polarity then it will be normal for the man to occupy the masculine and the woman to occupy the feminine. You can switch, and you can play around, and it's a lot of fun. I've done it. It's great.

But my essence is feminine essence, so I love to inhabit the feminine, and I love to be in relationship with a man who knows how to occupy the masculine pole. So when you've reinstated this sacred dimension of reality, and you've cultivated and you've worked this muscle, and you've opened the channel to this sacred dimension of your existence in relationship to life, then you can have this dance, this creational dance between the masculine and feminine that is the life-affirming that heals, that ensouls, that brings magic to the world.

That is the kind of real, like depth of relationship that our deep heart and our deep soul are existentially yearning for, and when we look out into the world, we we don't see that, and our past experiences haven't been that. And we're like, how do we do that? But it is part of creation. It is the creational dance to be able to do that. So what that means is that there's a pathway that is a way to learn to rewire, to come into relationship with how the masculine and the feminine move through us as creational, sacred forces within us, and then how those two sacred expressions of life, wants to be expressed, want to come together, want to dance, want to alchemize, want to heal, want to love.