GRAIL LOVE
The Membership
A monthly membership for men and women to explore the dynamics between the masculine and feminine in a way that touches the soul, leads to deeper love, and more satisfying intimacy.
Theme for January:
THE NUTS AND BOLTS OF POLARITY
There is so much misinformation on the internet, so we will be spending this month exploring what the masculine is, what the feminine is and what polarity is. It's from this foundation that we can dive deep into these topics into the coming months and weed out any misconceptions around the ancient nature of polarity.Â
January's guest teacher is Dan DeSena.
What's included each month?
↠ 1 x Pre-Recorded Teaching for you to watch at your own rhythm
↠ 1 x Live Masculine Embodiment Practice for the Men
↠ 1 x Live Feminine Embodiment Practice for the WomenÂ
↠ 1 x Live Q & A - a space for you to bring all of your questions
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Live Call Info
↠ Tuesday 20th January - Masculine and Feminine Embodiment Class
↠ Tuesday 27th January - Live Q & A
All calls are from 7 - 8pm (UK)
How we work at
Grail Love Lab
Together we’ll explore the unseen threads that shape how we love, and learn how to reweave them with presence and power.
Our Membership space is composed of six core dimensions:
Embodiment
Root into the wisdom of your body. Explore movement, sensation, and presence as gateways to the sacred.
Nature Connection
Reclaim your kinship with the living world. Let the land, the elements, and seasonal rhythms guide you to the depth of your soul.
Consciousness
Become aware of the different parts of your psyche and how they sabotage or enhance relationship.
Mysticism
Enter the unseen. Let ritual, dream, and archetype open you to the sacred currents running beneath everyday love.
Shadow
Welcome what’s been hidden. Engage with the unconscious patterns and create more space for love, connection, and your power.
Eroticism
Awaken the current of Eros. Learn how to channel desire as devotion, play as prayer, and embodiment as transmission.
 “These last few years I've been feeling lost in my relationships with women.”
"To be honest, I've consumed my fair share of relationship content geared towards men, and these workshops with Kate felt like a breath of fresh air.
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They challenged me to confront patterns I didn't know were there, plus Kate's vision for love and intimacy goes deeper than anything I'd ever seen. I'm grateful for the clarity and honesty this experience is helping me foster."
— Rowan
United States
BONUSES
Get immediate access to 4 bonus Masterclasses to support your unfolding when you enrol in SHE & HE.
â‹—Â THE DANCE OF THE EMBODIED MASCULINE & FEMININE:
With Speed Weed (usually ÂŁ111)
â‹—Â SOURCED IN LOVEÂ :Â
For men & women desiring a love that awakens the Soul and touches the Sacred (usually £111)
â‹—Â LOVE OPEN :
Staying Open to Love, even after Heartbreak (usually ÂŁ111)
â‹—Â THE WITCH WOUND IN RELATIONSHIP:
How Karmic Cycles and Toxic Patterns Sabotage Love  (usually £111)
TOTAL BONUS VALUE : ÂŁ444
FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions
Explore the questions we get asked the most about Grail Love. If you have any questions yourself, please reach out to us via email at [email protected].
What is your refund policy?
What if I miss one of the live sessions?
Is this program for individuals, couples, or both?
Do I need prior experience with embodiment or relational work?
Is this a therapy replacement?
What qualifies you to guide this kind of journey?
Your Teacher
Meet Kate Joyner
After a lifetime of devotion to the ways of Mystery, Earth, Soul, and Eros, I’ve come to see that love—real love—is less about finding and more about remembering. It lives in the body, in the soul, in the courage to let go of performance and meet what’s real.
I’m here to guide you into that remembrance.
She & He is an immersion for both men and women that rises from that wellspring. Our intention is to reclaim a culture of love—a love that is embodied, erotic, honest, and brave enough to hold the fullness of who we are.
This journey is an invitation into the tender and powerful territory of your soul. It’s a homecoming to the parts of you that have waited to be felt, heard, and honoured in love.
Your Guest Teachers
Meet Dan DeSena
A respected guide in transformational work, Dan brings a grounded approach to personal mastery that resonates with men seeking authentic growth. Drawing from his rich background as a psychotherapist, musician, teacher, speaker, group leader, and healer, he creates brave spaces where men discover deeper confidence, purpose, and presence.
His work transcends surface-level development, addressing the foundational elements of masculine identity while challenging outdated notions that no longer serve us. With a passionate commitment to transforming how men think about sexuality, confidence, masculinity, success, and happiness, he offers a refreshingly honest perspective on what true fulfillment looks like. Through practical wisdom and transformative practices, he guides men to embrace emotional intelligence alongside inner strength.
Known for his direct communication style and compassionate approach, he meets men exactly where they are—no judgment, no shame tactics, just honest conversation and real tools for change. His philosophy centres on the belief that true confidence stems from self-mastery and emotional resilience. Participants in his programs consistently report profound shifts in their relationships, professional lives, and self-understanding.
“I notice that I have more inner resources and access to a whole sense of self as part of my lived reality, not just a concept.”
Since my journey with Dancing Serpent I now feel a sense of belonging like never before.
I am able to express myself more fully, I feel more able to relate to people and places and I have a sense of being more present and congruent. The deep shame I carried around being a woman has diminished.
I notice that I have more inner resources and access to a whole sense of self as part of my lived reality, not just a concept.
I’ve come to accept myself as an older woman. I feel more empowered and have more strength. I have access to a healthier sense of empowerment. I didn’t know that before I was driven by my wounded child's reactions and defenses.
Now I am able to access the inner resources of empowerment, agency and strength as a woman that comes from a healthier source. I feel more robust and sustained in myself.
— Ruth B.
United States
