She & He
Reclaim Love as a Living, Sacred Practice
Join a profound 9-week group immersion for men and women ready to meet in devotion, embodiment, truth, and Eros. Unravel old patterns of love, romance, and connection to invite something wilder, more magical, and deeply felt to become the new norm in your relational paradigm.
Dear one, who is tired of shrinking, fixing, or fighting for connection—
You may be single or partnered.
You may feel the weight of old patterns you thought you’d outgrown.
You may long for connection that feels honest, embodied, and alive.
And you may be tired of doing it the way you've always done it.
Whether you’ve spent years learning to protect yourself,
ages trying to open to someone who couldn’t meet you,
or you're in a love right now that's real but not fully alive—
there’s a quiet truth beginning to rise within you:
You're ready to relate from a different place.
Not from reaction.
Not from inherited roles or unmet needs.
Not from self-protection dressed up as independence.
But from the part of you that remembers…
what it means to be fully awake as love.
How would it feel to...
â‹— End the perpetual cycle of unfulfilling relationships once and for all.
â‹— Create the love your heart has always known is possible.
â‹— Break free from patterns that leave you disbelieving and hopeless.
â‹— Feel empowered in your relationships to express your hearts deepest truth.
â‹— Cultivate a love that feels both safe and passionate.
â‹— Be so deeply seen that your heart finally exhales.
â‹— Speak your truth with confidence in every moment.
â‹— Experience a sense of mastery over your relational reality.
â‹— Express yourself freely and be met there.
Introducing
She & He
A profound 9-week group immersion for men and women ready to meet in devotion, embodiment, truth, and Eros. Together we’ll explore the unseen threads that shape how we love, and learn how to reweave them with presence and power.
Our group immersion is composed by six core dimensions:

Embodiment
Root into the wisdom of your body. Explore movement, sensation, and presence as gateways to the sacred.

Nature Connection
Reclaim your kinship with the living world. Let the land, the elements, and seasonal rhythms guide you to the depth of your soul.

Consciousness
Become aware of the different parts of your psyche and how they sabotage or enhance relationship.

Mysticism
Enter the unseen. Let ritual, dream, and archetype open you to the sacred currents running beneath everyday love.

Shadow
Welcome what’s been hidden. Engage with the unconscious patterns and create more space for love, connection, and your power.

Eroticism
Awaken the current of Eros. Learn how to channel desire as devotion, play as prayer, and embodiment as transmission.

 “Dear Kate, this is the best gift I’ve ever received in my life, perhaps it is because it is for my life and for my daughter.”
I honestly don’t know how to thank you.
To be able to hold space and lead myself, to feel this deep and sacred connection to life and feel my consciousness rooted in Him, has changed my life.
I now know how to relate to the feminine as magic. To be open to magic and the love that is there. Nothing to be fixed, everything to be honored. It’s a skill I wish all men would learn.
I am the key to my own locked doors. I doubted many times in my life that I would ever get here. That I was capable of this. Yet, here I stand.
Dear Kate, this is the best gift I’ve ever received in my life, perhaps it is because it is for my life and for my daughter. So, I do not say lightly, thank you.
— Ethan G.
United StatesÂ

Feel rooted in your body, clear in your truth, and open in your heart.
Come home to the truth of what you know, beyond the noise, the patterns, and the masks. She & He invites you into an embodied clarity that dissolves confusion, helps you build trust in your inner signals, and opens your heart without losing your center. This is where love begins to feel real—because it lives in you first.
Awaken the sacred dimension of intimacy in everyday life.
Whether you're a man or a woman, in partnership or preparing for one, this path shows you how to bring the sacred into your everyday life. In She & He, you'll learn to weave presence, ritual, and devotion into the ordinary moments, so love stops being something you chase and becomes something you tend.


Step into a new relational paradigm grounded in truth, presence, and authenticity.
In this work, you’ll dissolve the inherited scripts and postures that keep you disconnected from yourself and others. Enter a space where love is no longer built on roles or expectations, but on the courage to be fully seen. This paradigm invites you to meet another from the grounded truth of who you are.
What's Included
Nine sacred weeks to root into your truth, unravel old patterns, and meet love with new eyes.
In She & He, you’ll receive the structure, support, and inspiration to make real shifts in how you show up in love. Each week we gather live for immersive sessions that weave teaching, practice, and soul-level connection, supported by recordings, integration tools, and a private community space.

Live Group Immersions
We’ll gather each week for live online sessions that combine teaching, guided practices, rituals, Q&A, and soulful conversation. These nine calls anchor weave community, transmission, and practice into each phase of your unfolding.

Embodiment Sessions
Each module is grounded in embodied practice. You’ll explore movement, breath, sound, and awareness as doorways into awakening your inner knowing and anchoring love in the body.

Pre-Recorded Teachings
Get access to beautifully crafted teachings that you can return to anytime. These recordings distill the essence of each module into potent transmissions to deepen your path.

Ritual Nature Invitations
You’ll receive powerful invitations to reconnect with the natural world. Through ritual, observation, and sacred play, you’ll remember your place in the greater web of life.

Journal Prompts & Imagery Journeys
Carefully designed prompts and visualizations will guide you into deeper inner territory. These transmissions are made to help you nurture awareness, heal patterns, and make meaning from your lived experience.

Private Online Community
You’ll be part of a private space where you can share reflections, ask questions, and connect with fellow travelers. This is a safe space of resonance, vulnerability, and shared devotion.
The Curriculum
Over the course of nine weeks, we will move through layered portals of transformation. Each module is a step deeper into embodiment, connection, and truth, woven with practices that awaken the body, expand awareness, and open new pathways for intimacy.
Week 1 - Opening Ceremony
Week 2 - Cultivating a Relationship with The Sacred
Week 3 - The North - Finding the Ground
Week 4 - The East - Tending the Fire
Week 5 - The South - Embracing The Water
Week 6 - The West - Dreaming on the Wind
Week 7 - The Centre - Coming Home to The Core
Week 8 - The Subconscious in Relationship
Week 9 - Devotion to Love and Consciousness
She & He is for you if...
⋗ You’re longing for a love that feels emotional, spiritual, and erotic all at once.
⋗ You’re ready to break free from old patterns and rewrite your relational story.
⋗ You’re in a relationship that matters, but something vital still feels missing.
⋗ You want intimacy that’s honest, embodied, and deeply alive.
â‹— You feel called to love beyond gender roles, strategy, or performance.
â‹— You want to feel both safe and turned on in connection.
â‹— You want to meet the mystery of another without losing yourself.
⋗ You’re willing to face your shadows so you can show up fully.
⋗ You’re drawn to the dance of masculine and feminine energy within and between.
⋗ You’re craving a space that honors devotion, depth, and play.

"Never has a journey asked so much of me, nor been so absolutely delicious."
For three Spirals I have journeyed with Kate, each one weaving me deeper back into the truth of my blueprint. Never has a journey asked so much of me, nor been so absolutely delicious.
Each spiral has revealed hidden gifts from my primordial being, gifts that have opened and expanded my life, my gifts, and the way I walk in the world.
This spiral has woven me deeper than ever thought possible, taking me into the tenderest of wounds but also giving me the innocence of my Love, My Body, My Eros & Erotic template. Opening me to a Love deeper than I ever thought possible.
These are transformational journeys, weaving the Mythic and Somatic in a dance that will Sing through your body and into the Soul of World.
Thank you Kate for your guidance, your holding and your beautiful gift to the world.
 — Louise S.
IrelandÂ
Enrollment
Are You Ready to Practice a New Paradigm Way of Relating?
Our next cohort begins October 5th, 2025.
Live Group Immersions take place on Sundays 4-7pm (GMT).
⋗ October 5, 12, 19, 26.
â‹— November 2, 9, 16, 23, 30.
FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions
Explore the questions we get asked the most about the She & He Program. If you have any questions yourself, please reach out to us via email at [email protected].
What is your refund policy?
What if I miss one of the live sessions?
Is this program for individuals, couples, or both?
Do I need prior experience with embodiment or relational work?
Is this a therapy replacement?
How is She & He different from other relationship programs?
What qualifies you to guide this kind of journey?
Your Teacher
Meet Kate Joyner
After a lifetime of devotion to the ways of Mystery, Earth, Soul, and Eros, I’ve come to see that love—real love—is less about finding and more about remembering. It lives in the body, in the soul, in the courage to let go of performance and meet what’s real.
I’m here to guide you into that remembrance.
She & He is an immersion for both men and women that rises from that wellspring. Our intention is to reclaim a culture of love—a love that is embodied, erotic, honest, and brave enough to hold the fullness of who we are.
This journey is an invitation into the tender and powerful territory of your soul. It’s a homecoming to the parts of you that have waited to be felt, heard, and honored in love.

"I feel humbled and I feel more like a man. I’ve become a man I can trust."
 Now I relate to my 24/7 experience differently because I’m in a different mindset. I feel more empowered, I feel more balanced. I can now see where I was hiding and keeping myself small.
Connecting with the deeper level of who I am, beyond the conditioning I’ve been told about being a man, has been a really valuable resource.
I’m now living from a place of wholeness instead of brokenness.
The energies that I’ve activated through the alchemical embodiment practices have allowed me to make this shift.
At the beginning I was living with this underlying anger. Now I know what is my power and what isn’t. I understand the way certain things are inside of me. There is an acceptance of who I am and my own way of doing things.
What’s changed is that I’ve been humbled. There is a real humility in what’s come up for me. I’ve seen how I react to things. I’ve become aware of commitment and also my lack of commitment. I’ve shed a certain layer of my self inflated ego. I’ve found the strength of the man of the me.
The biggest transformation has been about commitment, integrity and money. I feel humbled and I feel more like a man. I’ve become a man I can trust.”
— Jim H.
United Kingdom
Enrollment
Are You Ready to Practice a New Paradigm Way of Relating?
Our next cohort begins October 5th, 2025.
Live Group Immersions take place on Sundays 4-7pm (GMT).
⋗ October 5, 12, 19, 26.
â‹— November 2, 9, 16, 23, 30.

“I notice that I have more inner resources and access to a whole sense of self as part of my lived reality, not just a concept.”
Since my journey with Dancing Serpent I now feel a sense of belonging like never before.
I am able to express myself more fully, I feel more able to relate to people and places and I have a sense of being more present and congruent. The deep shame I carried around being a woman has diminished.
I notice that I have more inner resources and access to a whole sense of self as part of my lived reality, not just a concept.
I’ve come to accept myself as an older woman. I feel more empowered and have more strength. I have access to a healthier sense of empowerment. I didn’t know that before I was driven by my wounded child's reactions and defenses.
Now I am able to access the inner resources of empowerment, agency and strength as a woman that comes from a healthier source. I feel more robust and sustained in myself.
— Ruth B.
United States